Below is the eulogy for church. Eulogy opened the service and a beautiful mass followed. We really appreciate the love and prayers from everyone who attended as well as all the virtual hugs from afar.
"Hello Everyone. Thank you all for coming today to honor my father's life. Salvatore Plumitallo was a family man, a hero, a teacher, and a friend. He was also the greatest dad a girl could have asked for.
As a family man, he was always present. He was born in Brooklyn, New York and was one of 9 children. Throughout his life he celebrated all the joys and sorrows. He was the first to hug, the first to tease and often the first to cause a ruckus. If he wasn't calling his nieces and nephews names he was chasing or tickling them but he loved them dearly. This lively spirit rubbed off directly onto his son, Anselmo.
He took these values to our small family too. Although he worked 6 out of 7 days a week, he involved us in his business. I remember him teaching me to take out hair rollers for a quarter a head (even though he could do it faster himself). As I got older I was taught to shampoo a head or two (but only those that didn't mind getting wet). My mother made cookies for the shop and ran a clothing store in the back. So we were always together. My father embraced our extended families no matter how they grew and changed. Most of all, when his granddaughter Isabella was born, he made her his world.
He was a hero that served his country in the Korean war. However, it didn't stop there. He supported our God, the government and his family as a protector on a daily basis, never afraid to face those with higher title or louder complaints.
As a teacher, he taught us by example. He showed us how to love, behave and work hard. He always had a big smile and a handshake or a hug. He looked you straight in the eye. He was happy to care for his home at the end of a long work day, especially his yard with pride. He made sure we knew how to behave and we knew his expectations. However, he was a gentle soul. His biggest punishment was when he wouldn't talk to you...and truthfully that never lasted long. Even as my life changed through marriage and divorce, he taught me that life goes on and you just keep moving forward. There were days I thought things were going to be too hard. Then, I saw an 80 year old man pausing to breathe as he fixed my yard and he showed me that you must enjoy the life God gives you and do what you need to do.
Towards the end of my dad’s life it was very difficult for our family to watch him struggle with cancer. Even though he was fighting such a difficult battle he always remained strong and was optimistic. He loved to live. He showed the most concern for us and how we were doing. He did not want anyone to feel sorry for him. The strength that he showed and his love for us is something that we will never forget. My dad was truly our hero and our friend. He was like the giving tree and he gave to us and loved us until he just couldn't do it anymore. We love you dad and will miss you very much. God bless."
Love forever and always,
Kim